
I noticed that my neighbor’s baby was has been crying all week especially at night (maybe that’s because I get back home in the evening.lol!). I had to go ask his mum what the problem was, then she told me that she was try to wean her baby off her breasts and he was refusing solid foods. You can’t blame the baby; he wants milk off his mama’s boobs and not from a spoon or cup.
Weaning your baby from milk to solids is a big step for both of you. It doesn’t have to be a time of unhappiness for either you or your baby. Weaning can be abrupt or gradual, and may take days, weeks, or months. Weaning can be influenced by the need to return to work, your health or your baby’s health and when you feel it’s the right time.
Abrupt weaning should always be avoided, unless stated otherwise by your doctor for the sake of both you and your baby. If you suddenly stop breastfeeding, your breasts will respond by becoming engorged, and you may develop a breast infection or breast abscess. Abruptly withdrawing the breast can cause emotional trauma in the baby.
Since nursing is not only a source of food for a baby, but a source of security and emotional comfort as well, taking it away abruptly can be very disturbing.
When Is The Right Time to Wean Your Baby?
It is recommended that babies should be fed with only breast milk for the first 6months outside mama’s belly.
Experts say that the right time to wean your child is after the first birthday because kids can adapt more to change at 365days. Weaning is dependent on the mother’s schedule. For a 9am – 5pm working mom, she will prefer to wean her baby at night unlike a stay at home mom who will likely wean her baby during the day. Having other sources of milk other than breast milk makes weaning easier.
These are some signs to know if your baby is ready; your baby can hold his head up, sits well with support, makes chewing motions with mouth, has doubled birth weight and is interested in what you are eating!
How to Wean
One approach is leaving the decision to child, this is called natural or baby led weaning. Your baby outgrows the need to breastfeed.
Another approach is to shorten the duration of breastfeeding until the child is taking all of the feeds from a bottle or cup.

As you start to wean, remember that your child needs time to adjust to drinking from cups. So be patient as your little one begins exploring the world of food.
These are some ways to make transition easy for both of you:
- Start with simple pureed or well mashed foods.
- Delay weaning if your child is trying to adapt to some other change e. g. teething.
- Change your feeding routine; avoid wearing your breast feeding clothes and sitting at the usual spot for nursing.
- Distract your child at the usual nursing time
- Do not discourage your child if he picks up a habit such as thumb sucking. It is just your child’s way of adjusting.
IT IS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT ALL CHILDREN WILL WEAN EVENTUALLY, SO DO NOT FRET!






















